My friend is nice.
We like to play
We play together every day.
We laugh and cry
And laugh again
Because, you see, we’re
Friends
Friends
Friends!

Although I saw you

The day before yesterday,

And yesterday and today,

This much is true-

I want to see you tomorrow, too!

My Friend when I think of you.
I think of all that we’ve been through.
All the times we argue and fight,
I know deep inside that it isn’t right.
I, then feel bad and alot of pain.
It feels like I’ve fallen from the sky like the rain.
I love you dear friend with all of my heart.
But now that you’re gone I’ve fallen apart.
I’m getting better as the days go by.
I wish sometimes this was all a big lie.
I pray to you every night.
It’s like you’re my fire, a burning light.
My dear friend, I miss you alot.
I still wonder why you were put in that spot.
I know you’re in a place much better than here.
Watching and helping me with all of my fear.
Our friendship my dear friend,
we will have to the end.
Friends til the end is what we will be.
Someday we’ll be together,
together you and me.

I can’t give solutions to all of life’s problems, doubts,
or fears. But I can listen to you, and together we will
search for answers.

I can’t change your past with all it’s heartache and pain,
nor the future with its untold stories.
But I can be there now when you need me to care.

I can’t keep your feet from stumbling.
I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall.

Your joys, triumphs, successes, and happiness are not mine;
Yet I can share in your laughter.

Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge;
I can only support you, encourage you,
and help you when you ask.

I can’t prevent you from falling away from friendship,
                from your values, from me.
I can only pray for you, talk to you and wait for you.

I can’t give you boundaries which I have determined for you,
But I can give you the room to change, room to grow,
room to be yourself.

I can’t keep your heart from breaking and hurting,
But I can cry with you and help you pick up the pieces
and put them back in place.

I can’t tell you who you are.
I can only love you and be your friend.

My candle burns at both ends;

It will not last the night;

But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends–

It gives a lovely light!

Inner Success is a positive, effective and inspiring way of empowering your unique vision, life purpose and the action needed to balance your life while achieving your goals for lifelong success and well-being. A thought without our personal investment is no more powerful than a tea bag without boiling water. It’s only after you add the water that the tea begins to infuse and create the flavor, and it’s only after you add your agreement and energy to a thought that it begins to impact your life.

• Heal and Balance Yourself Physically, Mentally, Emotionally and Spiritually
• Manifest Relationships, Perfect Health, Financial and Career Success
• Renew Vibrancy & Sexual Passion
• Communicate Easily & Powerfully
• Ease Life Transitions
• Learn Positive Parenting
• Choose a Healthy Lifestyle
• Manifest Your Life Purpose
• Dissolve Destructive Life Patterns
• Develop Your Gifts and Talents
• Experience Laughter, Light, Peace and Love to create the life you’ve been dreaming about!

The Freedom from the identification with the mind and movement towards the ecstasy of the Truth . This will lead us towards our inner joy which is ultimate and eternal. It is not dependent of anything or anyone outside. It is relying only on the inner soul. It is an inner phenomenon. During meditation, the moment nothingness happens (we start witnessing nothingness), suddenly we are standing face to face with ourselves for the first time, and all misery disappears.

Each of us has the opportunity to the same choices, why is it than some will be successful and others judge themselves failures or are complacent and willing to accept that their life just can’t get any better?

Success in your life is no different; success is not determined by the circumstances of any your past failures, but by the actions taken to improve the current and future situation. Success in life means something different to each and every one of us. Success may mean having abundance in riches whereas to others it may simply mean to lose weight and be healthy. No matter what degree of success you are seeking the secret ingredients are the same. The first secret is related to developing a willingness to accept failures and by using these failures as the stepping stones of success, the second is despite those past failures, to develop and sustain the inner drive to pursue your predetermined goals.

Success in life encompasses many different areas, including religion, politics, business, relationships, career and friendship, with most people developing an opinion at some earlier stage and maintaining that opinion throughout their life. Their understanding of the complex world we live in never changes. The third secret of success is about what you can give to yourself, the power of knowledge. Knowledge is the greatest of all possessions.

Success is a science, a developed skill, but many people refuse to move out from their self-sponsored burden and refuse to make a decision to improve their situation.

Here we have the most important secret to success, the real science, the science that scares the majority, the making of a decision to improve their own situation. The responsibility of making a decision is not a hard task, but it is a continual struggle for many. Developing this skill gives you control of your life, being able to choose the unfamiliar decisions over the comfortable are the keys to progress, they will unlock your door to success.

Come to terms with and start implementing the strategy of decision making and change in your life will occur. The change may include your beliefs, your attitude, your behavior patterns, but they all represent a change for the betterment of your life.

To your success is to design your success through using the strategies that incorporate the former mentioned goal setting and to introduce creativity.

Initially set your goals based on your current values, but as you develop changes in your values you need to update your goals accordingly.

Be objective with yourself as well as family and business, visualize your outcomes and that of planning your action. Action is the basis to long-lasting success. The emphasis you have placed on your new decision means nothing unless you step into the action. Don’t be a victim of that old saying, a decision without a plan of action is only a daydream, get into action, don’t be a daydreamer regarding your success, just DO it.

Smokers enjoy their habit because it stimulates the flow of “feel good” chemicals in the brain, according to a new study involving just a handful of test subjects.

The system of the brain affected is the same one that is stimulated by heroin and morphine.

Smoking affects the brain’s natural system of chemicals called endogenous opioids, which also help quell painful sensations and heightening positive emotions, the researchers said in a statement today. The system includes the release of endorphins that produce the oft-sought “runner’s high.”

It appears that smokers have an altered opioid flow all the time, when compared with non-smokers, and that smoking a cigarette further alters that flow by 20 to 30 percent in regions of the brain important to emotions and craving,” This change in flow as seen on a brain scan correlated with changes in how the smokers themselves reported feeling before and after smoking.”

But..The question is why we feel to good…It is not the taste that counts. It’s that sense of satisfaction you get from a cigarette that you can’t get from anything else.

Is Smoking is Fun ?

Is Smoking is a Reward?

Is Smoking is Oral Pleasure?

Is The Cigarette — A Modern Hourglass?

Is “With a Cigarette I Am Not Alone”

Is “I Like to Watch the Smoke”

Is “Got a Match?”

Is Certain moments in our lives are closely linked with cigarettes?

Is Smoking Mannerisms?

Is “Smoking Helps Me Think”?

Is Cigarettes Help Us to Relax?

Is “I Blow My Troubles Away”

Is Cigarette Taste Has to Be Acquired?

Is “No, Thanks, I’ll Smoke My Own”?

Is A Package of Pleasure?

Is evidence that smoking fights Parkinson?

Is benefit concerns restenosis, that is, the occlusion of coronary arteries. Smokers have much better chances to survive, heal and do well ?

Does tobacco smoke prevent atopic disorders?

Is Smoking Prevents Rare Skin Cancer ?

Is Smoking Reduces The Risk Of Breast Cancer ?

Is Alzheimer’s Disease Is Associated With Non-Smoking? 

Is the benefits of smoking tobacco have been common knowledge for centuries?  From sharpening mental acuity to maintaining optimal weight, the relatively small risks of smoking have always been outweighed by the substantial improvement to mental and physical health.  Hysterical attacks on tobacco notwithstanding, smokers always weigh the good against the bad and puff away or quit according to their personal preferences???????????????

Is 364 days are yes tobacco days????????????????

THANKS 20000 VISITORS

My heart is filled with deep respect and gratitude to ALL 20000 VISITORS.

Please, kindly accept this expression of my cordial thanks to all visitors of Fantasy.

I’d like to express my infinite gratitude.

I wish to all visitors for  a life full of smiles and happiness.

-GOPAL KRISHAN KHATRI

Romantic Words, Put together into sentiments, expressions of love and compliment, kind words spoken or the written word have an impact on us all. It’s why writers write, why romantic lines become famous, love inspired is how poets dream, and film makers seek out a fairytale that will touch our very hearts. What you say, and how you say it, counts. As mother always told us, if you haven’t anything nice to say-we all know how that goes. But what if you do? Have something nice to say that is? To a special lover, child, friend, relative..

Can you give me directions to your heart?
I’ve seemed to have lost myself in your eyes.

Apart from being sexy, what do you do for a living?

Is it hot in here, or is it just you?

Do you believe in love at first sight… or should I walk by you again?

Is there an airport nearby or is that just my heart taking off?

Something tells me you’re sweet. Can I have a sample?

Do you mind if I stare at you up close instead of from across the room?

If I had a rose for every time I thought of you, I would be walking through my garden forever.

If beauty were time, you’d be eternity.

I’d ask you for a light, but you’ve already lit my fire.

I don’t dance. But I’d love to hold you while you do.

You look like a girl who has heard every pick up line in the book, so what’s one more going to hurt?

Baby, you’re so sweet, you put Hershey’s outta business.

There’s so much to say but your eyes keep interrupting me.

If I could rearrange the alphabet, I’d put U and I together.

If I told you you have a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?

May we kiss those we please, and please those we kiss?

A curved line is the loveliest distance between two points.

Just call me milk, I’ll do your body good.

That sweater looks nice on you but it would look nicer crumpled up beside my bed.

Excuse me is your last name Gillette? …because you are the best a man can get!

Your lips are kinda wrinkled. Mind if I press them?

If I gave you a sexy negligee, would there be anything in it for me?

Clothes aren’t sexy. Women are.

Please be patient - this is my first time.

All those curves, and me with no brakes.

You can’t be real. May I pinch you to see if I’m dreaming?

Gee, that’s a nice set of legs, what time do they open?

• Is it hot in here or is it just you?
• If beauty was a drop of water, then you’d be the ocean.
• Is that bruise from when you fell from heaven?
• Pick up a pack of sugar and hand it to a girl, saying, “Here, you dropped your name tag.”
• Ever wonder why you have spaces between your fingers? So my fingers can fit there.
• Do you like to travel? My favorite place to go is anywhere you are.

• I could die tomorrow and it wouldn’t matter – as long as I knew that I could meet an angel like you in Heaven.
• I’m going on a picnic this weekend. Want to come?
• If you were a tear in my eye,I wouldn’t cry for fear of losing you.
• Is it hot in here or is it just you?
• I’d ask you for a light, but you’ve already lit my fire.
• If beauty was a drop of water, then you’d be the ocean.
• Tell me something, girl. Did it hurt when you fell out of heaven?
• I lost my teddy bear, can I sleep with you?
• Hey baby, you must be a sweater, because you got me feeling warm all over!
• Check the girls clothing tag then say - “That’s what I thought…made in heaven”!
• When God made you, he was showing off!

• It’s not my fault I fell in love, you’re the one who tripped me!
• Let’s walk in the rain.
• You must work for the FBI – Fabulous, Beautiful, and Intriguing.
• You look like a woman who has an expensive perfume named after her. It has to be called (pause) Incomparable.
• I want to steal your heart.
• You have the most beautiful eyes (or lips) I’ve ever seen.
• I’m new here in town and I keep getting lost … in your eyes.
• See my friend standing over there? He wants to know if you think I am cute!

  Is your father a terrorist, because you are no less than a bomb!

  Tell me something, girl. Did it hurt when you fell out of heaven?

  Is your dad in jail? Because he stole the stars and put them in your eyes!

  You dropped something, “My jaw”!

  Hey baby, you must be a sweater, because you got me feeling warm all over!

  Check the girls clothing tag then say - “That’s what I thought…made in heaven”!

  My boys over there bet that I wouldn’t be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl in the room. Want to buy some drinks with their money?

  When God made you, he was showing off!

  It’s not my fault I fell in love, you’re the one who tripped me!

Can I remember what I did yesterday? Can I remember what you did three months ago? Memories are what makes us happy and creating memories is very important for happiness. Remembering special events and places visited are what make us happy and have good memories.Life brings simple pleasures to us every day. It is up to us to make them wonderful memories.. Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I’ll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I’ve stored away, just for this time in my life. Line by line, moment by moment, special times are etched into our memories in the permanent ink of everlasting love in our relationships. I am learning that simplicity is more meaningful. It brings more memories because you have the time to enjoy things and relish the moment. We do not remember days, we remember moments. I will give you some tips on making memories everyday….

1. Focus on what is right and good in your life.

2. Always see the good in yourself and others.

3. Learn not to dwell what is happening in your life that is unpleasant or negative.

4. Accept the simple fact that life isn’t or ever will be perfect.

5. Know that you will have an impact on everyone who crosses your life path regardless of whether they are a stranger in an elevator, a customer, an employee, a neighbor or a good friend.

6. A smile for another person costs you nothing.

7. A kind word for another can be shared or withheld.

8. Stay focused in the present aware of your every word, action and feeling.

9. Don’t discount or invalidate yourself with derogatory statements.

10. Learn to control the thoughts that you allow into your mind.

11. Remember that your happiness or unhappiness in the end is up to you and you alone.

12. Don’t invalidate others with your words, opinions or actions.

Creating memories is a priceless gift. Memories will last a lifetime; things only a short-period of time.

birthday in Afrikaans is verjaarsdag
birthday in Dutch is verjaardag, geboortedag, verjaring
birthday in German is Geburtstag
birthday in Italian is compleanno
birthday in Latin is natalis natalis

Thanks a lot for your wishes on my birthday. Thanks you for making my birthday truly memorable.

I just wanted to take a moment and say thanks to everyone that has sent me a Happy Birthday message

I would like to, from the bottom of my heart, thank these people who had said a birthday

wish to me.

Many thanks to all of you for your birthday wishes.

Your words — as always — are a great source of strength.

I am celebrating today with my family — we are all grateful. Birthdays are good for you; the more you have, the longer you live. I remember when the candle shop burned down on may 2^nd . Everyone stood around singing ‘Happy Birthday. I just wanted to write that no matter how old you are, your special day can be just as exciting as it was when you we’re little. To feel special, because someone no matter how close or far, remembered YOU on your special day. Your special day to remember, that you have yet survived another year, no matter how good or bad it was. To reflect back on past birthdays and see how much you have matured and accomplished since all those years ago. My birthday means that I am born again in a new body for a precise reason. My birthday May 2^nd  relates to the energy of duality, of analytical thinking; and as well to the balancing energy of analysis and synthesis, in other words, harmony.

I think the true meaning of my birthday is much more. It’s a chance to tell that person how their life has affected them.

I would thank you from the bottom of my heart, but for you my heart has no bottom.

Humor and laughter 

 Humor and laughter being great stress busters, they also facilitate a good motivational environment, are great for team building,and enhanced relationships and communication. Humor and laughter facilitate a more stable and balanced work environment with less staff turnover and reduced absenteeism. People who use humor to cope with stress and who generally find themselves in a good mood also had stronger immune systems - more so than their less giggly counterparts. After all, listening to other people’s problems day in and day out can no doubt take its toll. And it isn’t just our physical and psychological well-being that can benefit from a healthy dose of laughter! Studies have also shown that a good sense of humor can counterbalance – to a certain extent – the harmful effects of poor conflict-resolution skills. In essence, even if you (or your partner) are really bad at resolving an argument, expressing a little humor about the situation can lessen the severity of it . Although there are multiple methods that can help us cope better with stress, laughter is likely one of the most underrated – and most entertaining as well. Keeping in mind that making light of more solemn situations isn’t generally the best way to deal with them, everyday stressors like traffic, slow service at the grocery store, or those pleasant little birds that love to chirp you up at the crack of dawn could all benefit from a little chuckle.

 Laughter is the best medicine. Humor and laughter are different, and a few studies have showed contradictory correlations between humor and longevity and blood pressure. Watching a funny film decreased cortisol, adrenaline and DOPAC, before, during and after watching the film. This means that simply anticipating something funny happening can decrease your experience of stress. However research shows laughter’s positive effect on:

  Immune system function

  Pain tolerance

  Blood pressure

    Longevity

     Asthma and Allergies

Reasons for Doing Laughter……………

1.         Laughter is a stress buster: it reduces epinephrine and cortisol levels

2.         Laughter strengthens the immune system: it increases natural killer cells and antibody levels

3.         Laughter is anti-aging: It tones facial muscles, increases blood supply to the face, nourishing tissues and making the skin glow

4.         Laughter is aerobic exercise: It increases your heart rate and is equivalent to any other standard aerobic exercise. William Fry, MD, from Standford University claims that one minute of laughter is equal to 10 minutes of rowing

5.         Laughter is internal jogging: Exercises abdominal muscles, improves facial muscle tone

6.         Laughter is a natural pain killer: Increases endorphin production, reducing intensity of pain

7.         Laughter helps control high blood pressure: Reduces release of stress-related hormones

8.         Laughter reduces depression and anxiety

9.         Laughter improves bronchitis and asthma: It increases lung capacity and oxygen levels.

10.      LAUGHTER JUST MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD!!!

11.      Laughter is an expression of joy. It’s a universal and sacred expression that is the same in every language.

12.      Laughter creates physiological changes in the body, such as exercising and relaxing the muscles which sets off a chain reaction of health benefits (improved breathing, which leads to improved circulation and production of endorphins, leading to decreased stress hormone and enhanced immunity.

Enjoy Life

To live our life ultimately means we are doing all those mundane activities with our best attitude and not as a way to pass. The proper function of man is to live - not to exist.

 Never take anything for granted. Savor every bite of a meal, enjoy what you have, and live each day as if it is your first day of your life.

 Do not let the child inside you disappear or die. Keep your curiosity alive by being inquisitive and open-minded. No one ever regretted on their death bed what they did; they definitely regretted what they did not do. life.

Change a little everyday. That way you will never get stuck. See what is happening around you, and rather than feeling threatened or getting suspicious, embrace change. Ask what change you need to make and do it little by little.

1. Enjoy your meal. Don’t just eat. Taste it and appreciate its richness.
2. Learn to cook.
3. Feel music and not just listen to it.
4. Play music. More than just listening, playing music allows you to express yourself.
5. Sing.
6. Gather with old friends.
7. Take a walk in the park.
8. Go hiking.
9. Give yourself a lazy day.
10. Play board games with your friends.
11. Have a candle-light dinner with your spouse.
12. Play mini games.
13. Read comics.
14. See beautiful pictures.
15. Read inspiring quotes.
16. Learn to paint.
17. Read a classic book.
18. Exercise with friends.
19. Watch funny videos.
20. Play with kids.
21. Play a mind game.
22. Have a cup of coffee.
23. Get a massage.
24. Go to a museum.
25. Go to a theater.
26. Watch sunrise.
27. Take pictures.
28. Browse your photo album for your treasured memories.